Perfect Relationship

Basically a relationship contains two people who understands each-other and accept each others all the flaws and make a relationship perfect by accepting the imperfections one has. Its all about finding the one who will go through everything without giving up. People cant promise you the perfect relationship but if you keep trying they will stay forever. In a relationship where a sorry and a smile can make everything better again is the perfection in relationship. Love doesn't always come easy but overcoming obstacles, facing challenges, holding on, fighting to be together and never letting go can make relationship even better.

Mark my words, relationships are not about handsome boyfriend and beautiful girlfriend accepting each others flaws and making each-other feel comfortable is what that matters because beauty is in heart if your love is pure you wont ever go for looks because everything is temporary in this world so is beauty, find someone who loves you for what you are trust me if someone asks you to change yourself for them they don't love your appearance that's not love because in love you love them for what they are. A perfect relationship is not actually perfect at all but you have to work for it. For me love means respect in any relationship if there is respect there is love, without respecting each-other don't compromise on a relationship because its not worthy at all.

"I have also gone through a lot in a relationship i loved him with the bottom of my heart. I was never in a relationship before it was my first experience ever when i actually felt love. He was everything what i was looking for but not every relationship has happy ending. I always thought its a myth that love fades away with time but its actually true but you know what keeps the relationship going on is respect of each-other no matter what. Once the respect has gone there is nothing left between the two individuals, self respect is everything. The way he was used to make me realize that i am one for him even with so many flaws having curves, no long hairs, not pretty nose, not fair complexion, not good physique, so many facial hairs, dark circles and wearing spectacles but as time was moving on he once said to me 'when i met you i thought there are so many changes i will have to make in her' that was something that broke me down because he never loved me for what i am he always wanted to change me physically and mentally. I was the most happiest person around him and wanted to get married with him but his family never liked me as a person they had so many issues with my physical appearance because i am not beautiful. Being in relationship for almost two years i realized not every person comes in your life to love you some people just come to make you learn lessons not every person is happy with you and not every person is trustworthy. People should never measure their love in relationship time is just number nothing else. Measure the beautiful moments you have had together when you actually felt loved."

We need to understand that we should listen each-other not because we are suppose to answer them listen to understand, we always doesn't need a brilliant mind that speaks but a patient heart that listens. Remember, communication and trust are two main ingredients for a good relationship. In any relationship there are fights, jealousy, arguments, faith, misunderstandings, tears but when two individuals care about each-other, they will always find a way to make it work no matter what. Keep in mind that sometimes it is very necessary to let things go because sometimes peace is better than being right.

To my all readers wish you best of luck with your partner in your relationship, do compromise when needed but don't disrespect yourself for the sake of love. Respect means love, nothing more than that.