Physical Appearance.

 

Being a fat or curvy girl its not easy for you to survive in a world where people judge you every second for your physical appearance, i was very confident as a child because i was unknown of these facts of our society that a girl should be fair and slim no matter what and yes when it comes to get married people are mostly looking for the girls who are very beautiful no matter how they look but they want their partner to be the most fascinating when it comes to looks. For me it was tough to be myself or love myself because there is a point in your life when your own family starts bullying you because of your weight, for them they are trying to help you but um sorry you guys are not helping anyway, you are just pushing me towards depression which leads to bad habits disorder and yes one of them is EATING and trust me it hurts a lot but whatever i still look for motivation where-ever i go, i am always seeking good things around me, so that people stop judging me on the basis of my looks.

 Yeah but wait its not over here, there is one more thing people may judge you for and its your color. Well it might sound awkward but  there are people who are totally fit and smart (physically) but they are also facing the same problem of bullying because they are not fair. We always highlight the word WOMEN that women are facing this problem or that problem but no, MEN are also going through so many things in their lives but the only difference is that they don't like to highlight their problems because our society has set boundaries in which men are men no matter how they are PHYSICALLY after all they are men lol (That's how our society thinks). I think we need more awareness about such things may be, most of the people don't relate with the problem I've mentioned above but guys there are people who feels the same way, most of the times people don't like to discuss such things because they feel its weird and people will make fun of you in future so yeah if you belongs from the narrow-minded people society then trust me people will make fun of you but keep my words in your mind "YOU ARE TOTALLY GREAT, THE WAY YOU ARE AND NOBODY HAS ANY RIGHT TO CHANGE YOU WHETHER PHYSICALLY OR MENTALLY. YOU ARE GORGEOUS/HANDSOME".  If your soul is beautiful than you are beautiful. Your body is just a picture of your story, you know if the story is interesting picture doesn't matter. There are people in this world who are unable to walk, talk, speak but they are alive and living their lives in a very proper way so why not we people just stop looking at the physical appearances and start working on ourselves to become a good human being with a graceful soul (That's what matters) because in the end of our lives our color and weight will not affect our deeds and we will be judged by our beautiful souls.